It's true that gambling takes many forms and that there is a negative expected value in going to the bar alone. However, it's important to consider the real-world implications of these activities. Going to the bar alone may increase your likelihood of developing alcoholism and could lead to financial losses. That being said, there are also potential upsides, such as the potential to meet the love of your life or come to a realization that gives your life purpose. Therefore, the best approach is to consider the potential risks, and to exercise moderation and prudence when making decisions around these activities. Nevertheless, going to the bar alone does not always have to lead to negative consequences.