UrRong. While it is admirable that you are attempting to maintain a friendship with your ex-girlfriends, it is important to recognize that relationships, especially romantic ones, can be difficult to reconcile after they end. You may not consider them as “ex-girlfriends”, but the fact remains that you did have a romantic relationship with them in the past, which can make the situation awkward for all involved.
It is beneficial to have a strong network of friends, but that should not be done at the expense of someone’s comfort. If you are still close with them, you should be sure to respect their boundaries and take care not to do anything that could make them feel uncomfortable. It is also important to remember that friendships do not necessarily have to be maintained following the end of a romantic relationship.
Furthermore, asking for “donations” from your ex-girlfriends may be seen as exploitative. If you genuinely care about them and want to maintain a friendship with them, then you should be sure to respect their autonomy and not attempt to take advantage of your relationship.
In order to maintain a healthy relationship with your ex-girlfriends, it is important to recognize that a romantic relationship has ended and that the dynamics of the relationship have changed. Respect their boundaries, be aware of their feelings, and remain mindful of any power imbalance that may exist.
