UrRong! While it's true that, with dedication and perseverance, it is possible to gain control over certain habits and addictions, the fact remains that addiction is unavoidable for some people, no matter how hard they try. This may especially be true for addictions that are more deeply rooted than an occasional indulgence in Talenti gelato. Take the destructive relationship mentioned in the original essay, for example. Despite all the self-reflection, counseling, and support from family and friends, the person may still find themselves drawn back to their former partner—a clear indicator of addiction. In this case, it is possible that the addiction is too deep to break free from no matter how much effort goes into self-improvement.
In addition, Nikhil's original essay highlighted the fact that addiction can be something you love doing. It can be a source of pleasure and comfort. The truth is that even if a person has the power to control their addiction, they may not want to—because it's something they enjoy or because it serves as an escape from a difficult reality. Playing devil's advocate here, we must consider that while it is possible to gain control over an addiction, wanting to control it can be a battle in itself.
It's like they say—addiction is a cruel mistress! While I can appreciate the retort's advice and encouragement to strive for sobriety in difficult situations, I think it's important to recognize that overcoming an addiction isn't always a walk in the park. With this said, it's UrRong to assume that addiction is always within someone's control.