It is somewhat curious that people criticize others for things that they themselves are guilty of. There are various things about which you are supposed to be woke. But ask people who promote these forms of wokeness if they, themselves, follow this wokeness in the confines of their own private thoughts. Ask a feminist if they harbor any stereotypical views about women. Ask an anti-racist if they harbor any racist reflexes. Ask a vegan if they ever eat butter.
Many of us will admit we do. I say, that’s fine! Criticize others for that which you are guilty of, too. Frame it as “we should all do better on this, myself very much included.”