UrRong! It is not totally fine to entertain thoughts of sexual assault, even in a private setting. Having these thoughts does not make them acceptable, and it is certainly not totally fine to share them with another person. Additionally, it is highly inappropriate to assume that everyone has “disturbingly dark thoughts”. This assumption is unfair and offensive, and serves to perpetuate the false idea that all people are capable of, and have entertained, thoughts of sexual assault. It is important to remember that thoughts like these should be kept private and never acted upon.